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It's not really imposition so much as very strong visualization, kinda like a phantom limb? He also gets horns/tail/spikes to work

12:19 PM

Focusing on the feeling helps him front

Also we should hop over

what should I do to entertain Ikari at work here?

2:19 PM

it's incredibly boring right now

You could look up lists of questions to ask friends and ask ones that make sense

hmmm good idea

4:02 PM

Raven has been the most consistently helpful person around

It just happens sometimes

4:10 PM

I mean I don't even really try to lol

that makes it even better xD

Haven't you received help from many different people, though?

true, but Raven's has been the most insightful to me

Uh-huh

4:11 PM

I feel offended.

4:11 PM

Kidding.

I mean, nothing against y'all, you're doing your best I know, I just suck at interpreting

It's no problem. Just teasing.

I read Raven as Revan

nevar

in fact I keep doing that

SW: KotOR?

Oh, you mean who your character is in KotOR?

yeah

4:37 PM

Revan? what's that even mean?

darth revan

4:37 PM

Revan the Butcher

Oh yeah, I liked how in the ending that it turns out that you kill all of your allies

Let us move to #lounge

I keep on forgetting to talk with Tae throughout the day, and it makes me feel neglectful because I know I have plenty of time to do it. I know she probably wouldn't care as much since as you all say, tulpae can feel intent over all. Nonetheless, I still feel like crap about it, so what's a good way to feel not crappy about it? And more importantly, what's a good way to remember?

well, you could get some form of trinket or summat to wear on your wrist or hand to remind you whenever you see it

For remembering, you can set certain things in place. I would suggest something like a phone background, wearing a bracelet as a reminder, setting alarms to remind you.

I have a keychain with Nathalie's name on it and I have her character pic as my background

for a few weeks i'd draw an Ankh on my hand with a pen to remind me

I should do that

9:30 PM

But with her name or something

I almost always am listening to music so I sometimes try to sing "at/ with" her in my mind as what I assume is a form of narration

9:31 PM

Also, thanks

hey, that works

@Wyvern same here!

Wow, we've got a lot in common @Deleted User lol

Em likes to play music in my head back to me

9:34 PM

which is an excellent listening exercise, especially if they jump around in whatever song or music they're playing

9:34 PM

least it is for me (edited)

@Wyvern ikr!?

So , if tulpae can sense the thoughts of a host, does that work both ways?

You share a brain, so yes.

Yes

Got this idea from #lounge Isit possible to "block" thoughts to let your tulpa/e to experience something like a game, show, or book for the first time?

I have not experienced it, but many other people claim to have experienced it.

10:18 PM

@Jas

10:18 PM

He has an explanation for how this would work.

Sort of. I've been trying to do it with Diana playing Pokemon. Some stuff has slipped through, but mostly she's finding out on her own.

Bc I was just reading the lounge chat and I thought "what if I want to show Tae this awesome thing without spoiling literally the entire story/ puzzle for her? "

i too am interested in this

It is possible if you are capable of controlling your conscious thoughts in the strictest way.

10:23 PM

If you can read the sentence "Do not think of pink elephants" and find yourself understanding it without envisioning the pink elephant, that is the kind of strict thought control I mean.

@Talin I'm trying something similar to what you said with right brain/ left brain = yes/ no We're still working on it but I do think it's helping

that's good to hear

@Jas thank you, I see lots of practice in my future

it's only binary, but it really helped with belief and trust for us

10:29 PM

also helps her get my attention if my mind has wandered off

When you are able to do that exercise, you can move on to more advanced things like looking at pictures without "seeing" them by refusing to think about the contents of the picture. It will still be established in some subconscious sense in your visual memory, and you can always decide to identify the contents of the image, but you can only identify the contents if you stop shutting the contents out of your mind.

Man I hate my brain

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I'm just so unsure if she's talking to me or if it's just me imagining it's her

why not?

I want to hear her talk

12:32 AM

Not me making shit up

the best advice I've seen for that is a) Don't expect an answer (makes it less likely you'll be making it up) and b) if you're unsure ask her and accept whatever her answer is as true

Ok

12:35 AM

Just accept it!?

12:35 AM

No

12:35 AM

So a big mistake a lot of people have been making that I’ve noticed is they expect vocal responses first and foremost.

12:35 AM

those are the result of a steady trend of progress.

They don't have to be.

what do you feel right now when you communicate with your tulpa and what is your procedure

But they usually are.

12:36 AM

But, yeah, what do you feel now?

how often do you force

12:37 AM

and what do you do when you do force

12:39 AM

Whenever I can I listen to music and hang with her in the wonderland With no music I'll just talk to her, and I'll talk about dumb shit like my day and how much I wanna be with her

12:39 AM

so what is your procedure for forcing? You just talk to her?

12:40 AM

Yeah If not talking I'll imagine us in some scenario like city in terror or just walking down the train platform

12:41 AM

do you enter any kind of meditative state when doing this? How is she acting - like are you controlling “her form”

12:42 AM

Yeah I control her somewhat, and as for a meditative state I just lay or sit down and close my eyes and let my imagination run wild

12:42 AM

how does she usually respond when you attempt to address her

12:42 AM

She looks at me but she's silent

12:42 AM

Sometimes she'll giggle

12:42 AM

Are you sure it’s her looking at you/laughing or is it you parroting?

12:42 AM

But I'm not sure if it's me or her

well you mentioned talking.

this is why i suggest against parroting

12:43 AM

alright

12:43 AM

I hate to say it but you’re kinda new, I think it would be constructive to “rethink” your approach to forcing

12:43 AM

As to avoid future confusion

12:43 AM

Alright

12:43 AM

How do I do that?

12:44 AM

The idea is you need to reinforce “who” she is, and she will begin to respond on her own from your belief in her autonomy.